What Is Power Love?

WHAT IS POWER LOVE?
We call many things love. I remember in grade 9 when I had a major crush on Josh, this guy at school. I used to obsess over him. After school, I’d get my markers out and write his name over and over and over. I’d write Michelle + Josh and Josh is Hot. I love Josh…. I couldn’t stop thinking about him and it was all-consuming. I called that love.

Or at age 25, Steve adored me for months before I liked him back. That felt so darn amazing. I was confident in his love because he thought I was the bees knees and he never looked at another woman. Sure, he was an alcoholic that lacked ambition and made promises he could never keep but I still loved him.

When I hit my 30s I basically started selling my soul for physical affection- justifying friends with benefits, and sleeping with non-committal men hoping they’d fall madly in love with me so I could have my Rom-Com fantasy come-true.

I knew it wasn’t love but I told myself it was ok because I loved myself.

I speak with many women who tell me how much they love themselves and love the men who cheated on her, ignored her, bored her, hit her, or drained her broke. Is this really love sisters? I suppose it could be.

Its not the love I stand for and it’s not what I teach.

Why?

Because IF the love in your life sacrifices, drains, or disempowers you, then I would argue that love, in the truest sense, is depleting not growing.

Power Love in a relationship fills you both up. You adore each other, empower each other and challenge each other to grow. You are two independent people who have an authentic partnership- you know, like when two people are more committed to passion, play, and fulfillment than winning an argument. They each see to it that the other is known, celebrated, and fulfilled. That’s what I’m talking about. Can I get a hell ya? (hell ya!!)

If you want to take a look at the Power Love Project or find out if you and I are a match in creating that love life you dream of, you can visit michellebaxo.com. or set up a free call with one of my breakthrough coaches www.michellebaxo.com/apply.

Love Yourself. Love Your Life. Fall in Love…. Don’t settle.

Michelle Baxo
Power Love Founder and Coach
michelle@michellebaxo.com
www.michellebaxo.com

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