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Self Love After Divorce

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Divorce will often leave you feel like less than a whole person. Maybe we gave too much of ourselves to someone we loved deeply. Perhaps circumstances and our giving nature, eradicated parts of our identity, and we found…

The 10 Types Of Fear That Keep You In Bad Marriages

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One of the common themes in the conversations I have had with divorcees, is that many of them felt they stayed too long, in very unhappy or dysfunctional marriages. Once a divorcee finds peace with their decision to…

Nutella and Spaghetti-Why We Repeat Our Bad Relationships!

Children of Divorce, Dads, Dating, Divorce, Emotional, Love, Self Help, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs

Second and third marriages have a historically higher rate of divorce than first marriages do, by some estimates, 53% first marriages, 68% second marriages, and a whopping 73% third marriages. The more I speak with divorcees the more…

When Your Ex Has No Boundaries After Divorce

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Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries! Often lack of boundaries is a trait that leads to divorce, (cheating, lying) so it isn’t surprising that I speak to a high number of divorcees, who have issues with their exes even after divorce…

Divorce Finalization-No one tells you about the Slump!

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I spoke to a divorcee the other like I do everyday, and gave them the divorce euphoria followed by slump speech. We often during our divorce are operating on such high stress levels that we are living on…

Valentines Day, Go Away!

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If you are single you will instantly understand this articles title, how often are we told or implied by society to be lesser people, just because we are not in a relationship or marriage? Daily, this phenomenon happens…

Should You Divorce?

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Should I divorce? This is probably one of the most common questions I get asked by the users of Dreamsrecycled.com. I never answer this question as it is not a decision that can or should be made by…

Celebrity Divorce Shows They Are Just Like Us

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I do not know Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie, however I do know divorce. I have spoken to almost 6000 divorcees, since starting DreamsRecycled. We as a nation love the Pitts with their clearly great chemistry, and stunning…

Divorce Shaming

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A few years before my own divorce but while I was acutely aware that my marriage was in shambles, I taught Sunday school to 3-9 year olds. Two of my students where smart, sweet siblings, who were a…

Ghosting Explained!

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What is ghosting? No it is not a loving relationship between Demi Moore and Patrick  Swayze in the movie Ghost, it is when someone living vanishes as if they may have died. It’s the evolution of silent treatment,…

Single Can Be So Happy

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I received a message today, it touched me deeply as I was at one time this person, it amazing me actually how many messages I receive daily, lamenting single life. Firstly being single does in no way make…

Why The Only Dating Immediately After Divorce Should Be With Yourself

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Exiting any marriage, no matter how long or brief, is always heart wrenching and also an adjustment. One of the biggest adjustments is getting used to the single life, and the new found dating scene you will find…

Exes Who Won’t Let Go After Divorce

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Much like any relationship you enter into what you put up with, you will get stuck with, life after divorce with your newly Ex spouse, will be no different. I am often told stories and scenarios of Ex…