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Confessions Of A Sex And Love Addict

Dads, Divorce, Emotional, Love, Mental Illness & Addiction, Moms, Relationships, Self Help

When I was asked to start writing this blog it wasn’t a question of whether I would do it, but more a question of where do I start? I was out for a walk and it hit me,…

Addiction and Suicide: Understanding Risks to Help a Loved One in Need

Dads, Divorce, Emotional, Mental Illness & Addiction, Moms, Self Help, Starting Over

Many risk factors increase the risk of both addiction and suicide. Many of the same factors that make someone likely to abuse drugs or alcohol, such as a history of abuse, chronic pain, and other factors, can also…

Celebrity Divorce Shows They Are Just Like Us

Divorce, DreamsRecycled, Emotional, Tiffany's Blogs

I do not know Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie, however I do know divorce. I have spoken to almost 6000 divorcees, since starting DreamsRecycled. We as a nation love the Pitts with their clearly great chemistry, and stunning…

Divorce Shaming

Dads, Dating, Divorce, Dreams, DreamsRecycled, Emotional, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs

A few years before my own divorce but while I was acutely aware that my marriage was in shambles, I taught Sunday school to 3-9 year olds. Two of my students where smart, sweet siblings, who were a…

Ghosting Explained!

Dating, Divorce, Dreams, DreamsRecycled, Relationships, Self Help, Tiffany's Blogs

What is ghosting? No it is not a loving relationship between Demi Moore and Patrick  Swayze in the movie Ghost, it is when someone living vanishes as if they may have died. It’s the evolution of silent treatment,…

Single Can Be So Happy

Dads, Dating, Divorce, Emotional, Love, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs

I received a message today, it touched me deeply as I was at one time this person, it amazing me actually how many messages I receive daily, lamenting single life. Firstly being single does in no way make…

Done With Divorce-What To Wear?

Children of Divorce, Dads, Dating, Divorce, Emotional, Love, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over

After my divorce, I remember thinking those single guys can sure spot a fresh-out-of-a-marriage gal. But how? My clothes gave me away. I still dressed like a married woman. Nice sensible clothes, stylish, but with a “married” label.…

Defining The New You!

Body, Divorce, Emotional, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over

This is a topic that I have been dragging my feet on writing.  Not because it is not important, or that I am afraid to speak on it.  But, rather, because it is a very recent conclusion that…

Why The Only Dating Immediately After Divorce Should Be With Yourself

Dating, Divorce, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs

Exiting any marriage, no matter how long or brief, is always heart wrenching and also an adjustment. One of the biggest adjustments is getting used to the single life, and the new found dating scene you will find…

ARE YOU PLANNING TO LEAVE?

Divorce, Legal, Moms, Self Help, Starting Over, Uncategorized

If you are thinking of leaving your marriage, you need to check the FIVE W’S… the basic questions for information-gathering or problem-solving. They are often used in journalism, research, and police investigations and provide the formula for getting…

The Room

Children of Divorce, Dads, Divorce, Emotional, Financial, Legal, Love

I recently watched an award winning movie called “Room*”. In the movie, the five-year-old boy and his mother were held in captivity in what appeared to be a sound proof backyard shed. Every day, the mother started her…

Exes Who Won’t Let Go After Divorce

Children of Divorce, Dads, Dating, Divorce, Emotional, Moms, Self Help, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs

Much like any relationship you enter into what you put up with, you will get stuck with, life after divorce with your newly Ex spouse, will be no different. I am often told stories and scenarios of Ex…

Weddings-Better the Second Time Around!

Children of Divorce, Dating, Divorce, Self Help, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs, Wedding Gifts & Divorce Items

I have not even contemplated my second marriage, as yet I have barely healed from my first. I do however though love each and everyone, courageous and open hearted enough, to remarry after your divorce. So for this…