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Divorce Shaming

Dads, Dating, Divorce, Dreams, DreamsRecycled, Emotional, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs

A few years before my own divorce but while I was acutely aware that my marriage was in shambles, I taught Sunday school to 3-9 year olds. Two of my students where smart, sweet siblings, who were a…

Ghosting Explained!

Dating, Divorce, Dreams, DreamsRecycled, Relationships, Self Help, Tiffany's Blogs

What is ghosting? No it is not a loving relationship between Demi Moore and Patrick  Swayze in the movie Ghost, it is when someone living vanishes as if they may have died. It’s the evolution of silent treatment,…

Single Can Be So Happy

Dads, Dating, Divorce, Emotional, Love, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs

I received a message today, it touched me deeply as I was at one time this person, it amazing me actually how many messages I receive daily, lamenting single life. Firstly being single does in no way make…

Done With Divorce-What To Wear?

Children of Divorce, Dads, Dating, Divorce, Emotional, Love, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over

After my divorce, I remember thinking those single guys can sure spot a fresh-out-of-a-marriage gal. But how? My clothes gave me away. I still dressed like a married woman. Nice sensible clothes, stylish, but with a “married” label.…

Defining The New You!

Body, Divorce, Emotional, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over

This is a topic that I have been dragging my feet on writing.  Not because it is not important, or that I am afraid to speak on it.  But, rather, because it is a very recent conclusion that…

Why The Only Dating Immediately After Divorce Should Be With Yourself

Dating, Divorce, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs

Exiting any marriage, no matter how long or brief, is always heart wrenching and also an adjustment. One of the biggest adjustments is getting used to the single life, and the new found dating scene you will find…

ARE YOU PLANNING TO LEAVE?

Divorce, Legal, Moms, Self Help, Starting Over, Uncategorized

If you are thinking of leaving your marriage, you need to check the FIVE W’S… the basic questions for information-gathering or problem-solving. They are often used in journalism, research, and police investigations and provide the formula for getting…

The Room

Children of Divorce, Dads, Divorce, Emotional, Financial, Legal, Love

I recently watched an award winning movie called “Room*”. In the movie, the five-year-old boy and his mother were held in captivity in what appeared to be a sound proof backyard shed. Every day, the mother started her…

BEING A STEPMOM CAN BE PRETTY CHALLENGING

Children of Divorce, Moms, Relationships, Self Help, Uncategorized

Getting married is a big adjustment, but add stepchildren to the mix and it can be a very stressful situation. Here are some helpful suggestions from Marilyn Frazer, author of The Relationship Trap: 1 .DON’T COME ON TOO…

Exes Who Won’t Let Go After Divorce

Children of Divorce, Dads, Dating, Divorce, Emotional, Moms, Self Help, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs

Much like any relationship you enter into what you put up with, you will get stuck with, life after divorce with your newly Ex spouse, will be no different. I am often told stories and scenarios of Ex…

Weddings-Better the Second Time Around!

Children of Divorce, Dating, Divorce, Self Help, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs, Wedding Gifts & Divorce Items

I have not even contemplated my second marriage, as yet I have barely healed from my first. I do however though love each and everyone, courageous and open hearted enough, to remarry after your divorce. So for this…

How To Hex The Ex!

Dads, Dating, Divorce, Emotional, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs

If you follow my blogs you will know most of what I say is done with a dash of humor and a healthy side of sarcasm, I in no way advocate doing anything horrible to your ex, I…

How Everyone Is Cheating And No One Gets Caught!

Dads, Divorce, Love, Moms, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs

This blog could actually be a 100 part series, in the last 3 years I have heard thousands of divorcees “divorce stories”, and I am pretty certain I have heard it all or close to it all. One…