Blindsided By Life!
Do you ever feel like you have been blind-sided by life? Everything you once thought to be true, was really just an optical illusion. Relationships and values that you held sacred, and lived by, now cease to exist. Things and people you relied on as constants, just...
The Vicious Cycle Of Control And Insecurity!
A cycle is an endless circle with no openings or escape routes. It just keeps repeating its path day after day, year after year. Control and insecurity follow this pattern. You have the controller and the victim; claws of domination digging into the flesh of the...
Shoulda Woulda Coulda!
"Shoulda" done it in my lifetime, "woulda" done it if it wasn't for this, this, and that; "coulda" done it if I just had the courage. Sound familiar? Each and every one of us has a passion in life. Some specific skill or talent that puts that sparkle in our eyes, and...
Is The Grass Always Greener?
Is the grass always greener? This inevitable question has plagued the minds of thousands throughout the years. It is the question pondered when making most major decisions. Should I look for a new job? Should I change my career path? Should I leave my significant...
You Are My Best Friend!
Collaboration is hard. Connecting is harder. I would rather collaborate than connect. I will pick a professional collaboration over an intimate bond ten times out of ten times. A collaborative professional relationship has a common foundation – the office – and while...
Should You Divorce?
Should I divorce? This is probably one of the most common questions I get asked by the users of Dreamsrecycled.com. I never answer this question as it is not a decision that can or should be made by anyone but the individual. I actually ironically do not even advocate...
Time to Grow Up- Male Divorce POV
Introduction Underdog stories, both fictional and non-fictional, do not appeal to me. What inspires me the most is the story of the guy who seemingly has everything in the world, then massively self-destructs to lose it all, makes the necessary changes in his life to...
Credit Restoration After Divorce
Divorce has always been a mixed bag of the good bad and the ugly, one of divorces truisms is that divorce is not only expensive but also in the process of dividing funds you both in many ways end up worse off at least initially. Credit scores can be effected,...
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