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How to avoid repeating painful pattern- Male POV

Dads, Dating, Divorce, Emotional, Relationships, Self Help

Are you separated, divorced, arguing constantly or any number of scenarios and you cannot figure out why “he” is such a jerk? The following list may begin to give an idea of what men actually experience in relationships…

The 10 Types Of Fear That Keep You In Bad Marriages

Dads, Divorce, Emotional, Moms, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs

One of the common themes in the conversations I have had with divorcees, is that many of them felt they stayed too long, in very unhappy or dysfunctional marriages. Once a divorcee finds peace with their decision to…

Picture Perfect!

Body, Children of Divorce, Dating, Divorce, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over

Picture perfect doesn’t exist. That “oh so perfect” fairy tale always turns out to be one heaping pile of bullshit. Nothing drives me more insane than a person who pretends everything is “wonderful” all the time. You know…

Kick-Start Your Career After Divorce / Separation

Career, Dads, Divorce, Moms, Starting Over

There are many reasons why women find themselves amid a career break. We meet many women in the Vermilion Talent community that face an extra layer of complexity due to a divorce or separation. It doesn’t really matter…

Getting Unstuck!

Dads, Divorce, Emotional, Moms, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over

When you’re STUCK in your story Going through the divorce process is hard financially, emotionally, personally and every other way you can think of. HOWEVER, moving on and embracing your new found freedom (you will!) will be priceless.…

Detox Your Closet To A New You!

Dating, Divorce, Self Help, Starting Over

When you open your closet does it feel like a foreign closet that doesn’t belong to you? Does the clothing feel so different from who you are now that you want to cry or run? This is common…

Nutella and Spaghetti-Why We Repeat Our Bad Relationships!

Children of Divorce, Dads, Dating, Divorce, Emotional, Love, Self Help, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs

Second and third marriages have a historically higher rate of divorce than first marriages do, by some estimates, 53% first marriages, 68% second marriages, and a whopping 73% third marriages. The more I speak with divorcees the more…

When Your Ex Has No Boundaries After Divorce

Children of Divorce, Dads, Divorce, Emotional, Love, Moms, Self Help, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs

Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries! Often lack of boundaries is a trait that leads to divorce, (cheating, lying) so it isn’t surprising that I speak to a high number of divorcees, who have issues with their exes even after divorce…

Divorce Finalization-No one tells you about the Slump!

Dads, Dating, Divorce, Love, Moms, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs

I spoke to a divorcee the other like I do everyday, and gave them the divorce euphoria followed by slump speech. We often during our divorce are operating on such high stress levels that we are living on…

What Is Anger!

Dating, Divorce, Emotional, Love, Mental Illness & Addiction, Moms, Relationships, Self Help

Anger is disappointed love. Whether it be disappointment in the fact that you can’t give it, or disappointment in the fact that you’re not receiving it. Either one, results in feelings of anger. How do you get rid…

Heart Break-Help!

Children of Divorce, Dads, Dating, Divorce, Emotional, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over

You know when someone breaks your heart and it hurts so bad that you feel something inside of you just shut off? Then you find yourself laying on the bathroom floor–hugging your knees–tears streaming down your face. Your…

Fitness-How to Stay Motivated?

Dads, Divorce, Emotional, Self Help, Starting Over

Stay Motivated Stay motivated I receive messages often from readers asking many different questions, but the number one question I receive is… can you guess? HOW DO YOU STAY MOTIVATED WITH ALL YOUR GOING THROUGH? Truthfully, I don’t…

Is There Really Happy Ever After?

Dads, Divorce, First Loves, Love, Moms, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over

As little girls we all dream about, and plan our wedding day in our minds. We marry off Barbie and Ken, and play pretend bride dress up with our girlfriends. Marriage is something most little girls hope to…