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Go AWAY! Come Back!

Dads, Dating, Divorce, Emotional, Self Help

Go Away, Come Back I’m lucky enough to be on the phone last night with a mentor who is holding me accountable for my behavior. Recently, my self-destructive tendencies have overtaken me again, and I have used others…

Should You Divorce?

Dads, Divorce, DreamsRecycled, Love, Relationships, Self Help, Tiffany's Blogs

Should I divorce? This is probably one of the most common questions I get asked by the users of Dreamsrecycled.com. I never answer this question as it is not a decision that can or should be made by…

Time to Grow Up- Male Divorce POV

Career, Children of Divorce, Dads, Dating, Divorce, Relationships, Self Help

Introduction Underdog stories, both fictional and non-fictional, do not appeal to me. What inspires me the most is the story of the guy who seemingly has everything in the world, then massively self-destructs to lose it all, makes…

Credit Restoration After Divorce

Dads, Divorce, Financial, Moms, Self Help, Starting Over

Divorce has always been a mixed bag of the good bad and the ugly, one of divorces truisms is  that divorce is not only expensive but also in the process of dividing funds you both in many ways…

Confessions of a Sex and Love Addict It Takes Two to Tango

Body, Dads, Dating, Divorce, Emotional, Mental Illness & Addiction, Self Help, Starting Over

In my experience, forms of codependence, love addiction/love avoidance are present in every relationship, even amongst coworkers and friends. I state that because our culture has sold us a picture of love being this intense emotional reaction. Every…

Navigate Divorce Easier With These Great Tips!

Children of Divorce, Dads, Divorce, Emotional, Love, Self Help, Starting Over

Divorce is hard, mine was no different, I would love to share with you some of my personal secrets on how I was able to transform my life during my divorce. First thing that will help you on…

Innocent Spouse Relief

Dads, Divorce, Financial, Legal, Moms

Sometimes, you just end up falling for someone who only looks out for themselves; without any regard to what is right or wrong or whether their actions could adversely affect you.  Your spouse ends up doing something shady,…

Confessions Of A Sex And Love Addict

Dads, Divorce, Emotional, Love, Mental Illness & Addiction, Moms, Relationships, Self Help

When I was asked to start writing this blog it wasn’t a question of whether I would do it, but more a question of where do I start? I was out for a walk and it hit me,…

Addiction and Suicide: Understanding Risks to Help a Loved One in Need

Dads, Divorce, Emotional, Mental Illness & Addiction, Moms, Self Help, Starting Over

Many risk factors increase the risk of both addiction and suicide. Many of the same factors that make someone likely to abuse drugs or alcohol, such as a history of abuse, chronic pain, and other factors, can also…

Divorce Shaming

Dads, Dating, Divorce, Dreams, DreamsRecycled, Emotional, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs

A few years before my own divorce but while I was acutely aware that my marriage was in shambles, I taught Sunday school to 3-9 year olds. Two of my students where smart, sweet siblings, who were a…

Single Can Be So Happy

Dads, Dating, Divorce, Emotional, Love, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over, Tiffany's Blogs

I received a message today, it touched me deeply as I was at one time this person, it amazing me actually how many messages I receive daily, lamenting single life. Firstly being single does in no way make…

Done With Divorce-What To Wear?

Children of Divorce, Dads, Dating, Divorce, Emotional, Love, Relationships, Self Help, Starting Over

After my divorce, I remember thinking those single guys can sure spot a fresh-out-of-a-marriage gal. But how? My clothes gave me away. I still dressed like a married woman. Nice sensible clothes, stylish, but with a “married” label.…

The Room

Children of Divorce, Dads, Divorce, Emotional, Financial, Legal, Love

I recently watched an award winning movie called “Room*”. In the movie, the five-year-old boy and his mother were held in captivity in what appeared to be a sound proof backyard shed. Every day, the mother started her…